What I've learned in 9 years

9 years and 20 pounds ago, we said I do. It was a beautiful wedding, and the moment I laid eyes on Paul at the end of the isle I cried. Not tears of nerves or anything like that, it was just out of happiness, you know I'm one of those who cries over any emotion. :) So, here we are 9 years later, and I would say I've learned a lot about Paul...

I've learned just how completely opposite we are.
I knew this going into the marriage, but you know after the honeymoon is over, the differences are more noticeable. :)
I learned that giving you the nickname Rico, was perfect.
You are out of control with your suaveness sometimes.
I have evidence of this over and over...

I've learned that you cannot get the concept that these dishes...
Just go in this thing right here, called the dishwasher.
I've learned that sometimes you whistle so much, I want to shove a straw in there and choke you.
I've learned that I could scream fire and be naked when you play x-box, you would never notice me.
I've learned that you will always be one of the first ones on the dance floor.
And you can get down for a white guy.
You will also belt out a karaoke tune if given the opportunity.
I've learned over and over what fun you are.
You are usually up for anything

I learned very early on what you are truly made of.
Your strength and determination inspired me for years, as it still does today.
I learned the heartbreak of watching you suffer, and I learned that you NEVER give up.
I learned that you could face loss, and never doubt the one who gave it to you in the first place.
I learned what a good dad you are.
And that you help keep me balanced and sane parenting with me.

On that day, didn't we think we knew it all?? Hardly. I had lots to learn.
Most importantly, I've learned you are still the one for me.